Part 2: The Side Chick: A Trap or a Target? Willing or Wounded?
She isn’t just after your husband. She is after your covenant.
She isn’t just flirting with the man. She is flirting with destiny disruption.
And maybe, just maybe, she isn’t a villain… but a victim used by the real enemy.
Part 1: Why Do Men Fall for Side Chicks?
I’m writing this to expose the root causes of infidelity, not to discuss the symptoms. Because many men aren’t just falling, they’re walking into traps set by the enemy with wide open wounds and no spiritual covering.
The Savior Mentality: The Trap Disguised As Love
The savior mentality is one of the most deceptive traps a person can fall into. It disguises itself as love, as compassion, as duty. It convinces you that you are responsible for fixing, healing, and carrying others, often at the cost of your own peace and well-being.
Depression Is Not Just A Mental Issue… Its A Spiritual Attack
Depression is often viewed as a purely mental health issue, a condition to be diagnosed and treated. But when we look deeper, we see a spiritual dimension that cannot be ignored.
Coping Mechanisms: Devil’s Strategy To Keep You Stuck
When we operate in these coping mechanisms, we step out of alignment with God’s plan, giving the enemy room to deceive us.
Trauma: The Devil’s Training Ground
Trauma is the devil’s training ground. It is the place where unhealed pain becomes fertile soil for spiritual manipulation, shaping people into versions of themselves they were never meant to be.
Why Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Feels Impossible—and How to Protect Your Peace
Co-parenting with a narcissist is an exhausting and difficult experience. Narcissists crave attention, control, and validation, often seeing themselves as the center of everything, including their children’s lives.
