{"id":1594,"date":"2025-05-14T13:40:58","date_gmt":"2025-05-14T13:40:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/?p=1594"},"modified":"2025-05-14T14:09:00","modified_gmt":"2025-05-14T14:09:00","slug":"rachaelmumo-7-2-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/?p=1594","title":{"rendered":"Part 4: THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1594\" class=\"elementor elementor-1594\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-28e36ca1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"28e36ca1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container 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elementor-element-5474cb0 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5474cb0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><div><div class=\"xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a\"><h3 dir=\"auto\">There are two types of side chicks.<\/h3><h4 dir=\"auto\">The wounded and the willing.<\/h4><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><em> Let\u2019s talk about the wounded girl..<\/em><\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Series:Spiritual Warfare In Marriage.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><figure id=\"attachment_1598\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1598\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1598\" src=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/depressed-girl.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/depressed-girl.webp 600w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/depressed-girl-300x200.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1598\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">&#8220;For we are not ignorant of the enemy\u2019s devices\u2026&#8221;<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">2 Corinthians 2:11<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">I am a laborer in the kingdom of my father and to me every soul matters no matter how you see them, I see souls that need saving and healing.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">We\u2019re not just talking about women, we&#8217;re talking about strongholds, soul wounds, and spirits that hijack women\u2019s identities for warfare against covenant.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">This is beyond flesh. It\u2019s warfare at the identity level. Hell doesn\u2019t need a willing woman; it just needs a wounded one. A woman whose soul has been fragmented through childhood trauma, abandonment, emotional neglect, and unmet love needs. The enemy steps in where the father didn\u2019t. The counterfeit appears where healing was delayed. And what looks like &#8220;romance&#8221; is really a setup for covenant destruction.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">THE WOUNDED SIDE CHICK, A TOOL IN WARFARE THROUGH BROKENNESS<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><figure id=\"attachment_1413\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1413\" style=\"width: 2560px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1413\" src=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/young-man-woman-sitting-cafe-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1413\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">This woman didn\u2019t grow up dreaming of being \u201cthe other woman.\u201d She didn\u2019t start off wanting to break up homes. Her path into this role is almost always paved with invisible pain.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">She\u2019s the woman with:<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Father wounds \u2013 the absence of affirmation and affection<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Rejection trauma \u2013 from childhood, past lovers, or deep betrayal<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Low self worth,\u00a0 formed through constant comparison and emotional neglect<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Unhealed abandonment, from being unseen, unheard, or unchosen<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Emotional starvation \u2013 she\u2019s not looking for lust, she\u2019s looking for connection<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><figure id=\"attachment_1544\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1544\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1544\" src=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/family-conflict-angry-black-father-600nw-1942433083.webp\" alt=\"THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET\" width=\"600\" height=\"404\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/family-conflict-angry-black-father-600nw-1942433083.webp 600w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/family-conflict-angry-black-father-600nw-1942433083-300x202.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1544\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">She didn\u2019t choose this identity, it grew from neglect, from an ache that never healed.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">And so, when a man comes along with charisma, attention, and emotional availability, even if he\u2019s married, she interprets his interest as love.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">Why? Because no one ever told her she was enough without being someone\u2019s option.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">The enemy preys on her emotional malnutrition.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">She craves validation and attention and being chosen, so she settles for attention.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">She\u2019s not evil, she\u2019s broken.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">She doesn&#8217;t always even know he\u2019s married at first, but when she does, the soul tie is already formed.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><figure id=\"attachment_1600\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1600\" style=\"width: 1400px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1600\" src=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw.jpg\" alt=\"THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET\" width=\"1400\" height=\"787\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1_HV33YgEtQBPzmY0mz7ihUw-600x337.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1600\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">By the time truth dawns, she\u2019s emotionally entangled, mentally addicted to the fantasy, and spiritually bound. She convinces herself:<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">\u201cMaybe I\u2019m his soulmate.\u201d<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">\u201cMaybe his wife doesn\u2019t understand him.\u201d<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">\u201cMaybe God brought us together and the timing was just wrong.\u201d<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">These are not harmless thoughts, these are demonic whispers disguised as destiny.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">It\u2019s not fate, it\u2019s a trap.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">The Spiritual Roots Behind Her Mindset:<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div dir=\"auto\"><figure id=\"attachment_1601\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1601\" style=\"width: 1575px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1601\" src=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034.jpg\" alt=\"THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET\" width=\"1575\" height=\"1050\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034.jpg 1575w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/rachaelmumo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/88414034-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1575px) 100vw, 1575px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1601\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">THE SIDE CHICK MINDSET<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><ol><li dir=\"auto\">Spirit of Rejection<\/li><\/ol><div dir=\"auto\">She\u2019ll do anything to belong. She believes that being second is better than being alone. But this is not love, it\u2019s a trauma bond.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">2. Orphan Spirit<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">She doesn\u2019t feel chosen, covered, or seen. She lives as if she must earn love by being convenient, available, and sacrificial, even to her own detriment.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">3. Spirit of Manipulation (disguised as affection)<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">She doesn\u2019t know she\u2019s manipulating, but her neediness becomes a trap. She bonds through crisis, through shared secrets, through false intimacy. What she thinks is connection is often a web of spiritual bondage.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">She\u2019s not operating in pure evil,she\u2019s operating from a fractured soul. And the enemy doesn\u2019t need her to be wicked. He just needs her to stay unhealed.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00a0<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><h5 dir=\"auto\">What She Needs:<\/h5><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><ul><li dir=\"auto\">Inner Healing \u2013 She must confront the wounds that made her vulnerable. That part pf her that keep attracting dysfunctional relationships.<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><ul><li dir=\"auto\">Identity Restoration \u2013 She must meet the Father she never had, and realize she\u2019s already loved, because Jesus loves her and willing to quench her thirst just like the samaritan woman.<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><ul><li dir=\"auto\">Deliverance \u2013 Because some doors weren\u2019t opened by choice, they were opened through trauma, soul ties, and generational curses<\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><div dir=\"auto\">She\u2019s not Jezebel, she\u2019s a wounded girl with open doors.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Until the Church can look past the surface and into her soul, we will keep demonizing women who were first demonized by life itself.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">We must pray for her. Preach to her. 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